Yes hello, what have you got in a zero down, 99 year mortgage?

We are very fortunate.

We’ve just bought a beautiful house that a bank was foolish enough to loan us the money for.

It’s just a house.

It’s lumber and shingles and concrete and wires and metal.

It’s so much more though, already. It’s home. It’s a soft place to land at the end of a long hard day. It’s time out when the world’s daggers feel particularly sharp, poked from all directions into all your soft fleshy bits.

It’s that little place we’re carving out for ourselves, for our kids. And most importantly, it’s a reminder of what really matters – surrounding yourself with people you love and building a little blanket fort with them to keep out all the scary monsters – and keep in all of the warmth.

HR wouldn’t let me build a fort under my desk.

Before I had kids, I had forgotten a few of life’s most profound and irrefutable truths:

  1. Anything in the entire universe can be created using the Earth’s five fundamental building blocks: crayons, construction paper, tape, scissors and glue.
  2. A fort is safest and most perfect place in creation.
  3. A fort may be built in any place, at any time, using any materials.
  4. Even the hardest, scariest and most daunting aspects of life are no match for soft jammies and a cuddly blanket.
  5. The world is joyous and fascinating.  It can also be big and scary and hard.  Family is what makes it the first part more often than it is the second.